A Pontential PC I don't really like [Archive] - Wizards Community

A Pontential PC I don't really like [Archive] - Wizards Community

Post/Author/DateTime Post
MasterRookie
05-12-05, 03:17 PM My friend just suggested I DM for him and Someone I don't like much. He's a pretty negative person and rather rude. My party is low on players or atleast players who can make it to most sessions, but I'm not sure I want to asociate with any sketchy characters. Has anyone here had to DM for people he doesn't really like.
Lxarth
05-12-05, 03:24 PM I have played with people I don't really like...and guess what? I stopped playing.

If you do this you probably won't have any fun, so why do it? It's not like you are getting paid to do it, and if you are...why are you gonna complain, you're getting paid arn't you?!
Nightgaunt
05-12-05, 03:24 PM Yes,
It was a mistake never again repeated, the guy grated on my nerves like a pack of drunken dwarves in full plate mail parading around my room while I have a hang-over. There is a formula for calculating fun per hour, and D&D can't cover the cost of someone you dislike.

but feel free. :cool:
Didge
05-12-05, 03:38 PM Ok,

Does this person know he grates on your nerves? Is this something you've discussed, i.e., bad habit that can be overcome, etc.?

If yes then speak to your other friend about the person that is grating. Explain your concerns. Give examples of why this individual would not be someone you'd enjoy DM'ing for. If your friend is positive that this person won't be a problem offer this solution.

Invite them to the game on a trial basis. They aren't a full party member yet, and if they do anything to **** you off then they leave. If this person is truly intent on playing and trying to not grate on you then it'll be both a life lesson and a fun D&D experience. Otherwise, boot him.

See, isn't life simple?
Nightgaunt
05-12-05, 04:14 PM If this person is truly intent on playing and trying to not grate on you then it'll be both a life lesson and a fun D&D experience.

Or possibly a made for TV movie or after-school special...
SwitchUK
05-12-05, 04:33 PM I say let him try it out, and be civil. Claim the moral high ground. That way, if he bites the hand, you can justifiably kick him out again.

If he REALLY gets unpleasant with you, try shaking him up somehow. I suggest trying something like THIS (http://somethingpositive.net/sp05012002.shtml). If you're lucky, he'll leave, and you get a good laugh at his expense.
amethal
05-12-05, 04:58 PM My friend just suggested I DM for him and Someone I don't like much. He's a pretty negative person and rather rude. My party is low on players or atleast players who can make it to most sessions, but I'm not sure I want to asociate with any sketchy characters. Has anyone here had to DM for people he doesn't really like.How low on players are you?

I've played with people I don't like, but I'd draw the line at DM ing for one. Its better to DM for 2 players you like than 3 players, one of whom you don't like.

Not a big fan of DM ing for 1 player tho, so if these are the only 2 guys you have then you'll have to decide just how much you dislike the problem player and how much you like D&D.

Post/Author/DateTime	Post
MasterRookie 05-12-05, 03:17 PM	My friend just suggested I DM for him and Someone I don't like much. He's a pretty negative person and rather rude. My party is low on players or atleast players who can make it to most sessions, but I'm not sure I want to asociate with any sketchy characters. Has anyone here had to DM for people he doesn't really like.
Lxarth 05-12-05, 03:24 PM	I have played with people I don't really like...and guess what? I stopped playing. If you do this you probably won't have any fun, so why do it? It's not like you are getting paid to do it, and if you are...why are you gonna complain, you're getting paid arn't you?!
Nightgaunt 05-12-05, 03:24 PM	Yes, It was a mistake never again repeated, the guy grated on my nerves like a pack of drunken dwarves in full plate mail parading around my room while I have a hang-over. There is a formula for calculating fun per hour, and D&D can't cover the cost of someone you dislike. but feel free. :cool:
Didge 05-12-05, 03:38 PM	Ok, Does this person know he grates on your nerves? Is this something you've discussed, i.e., bad habit that can be overcome, etc.? If yes then speak to your other friend about the person that is grating. Explain your concerns. Give examples of why this individual would not be someone you'd enjoy DM'ing for. If your friend is positive that this person won't be a problem offer this solution. Invite them to the game on a trial basis. They aren't a full party member yet, and if they do anything to **** you off then they leave. If this person is truly intent on playing and trying to not grate on you then it'll be both a life lesson and a fun D&D experience. Otherwise, boot him. See, isn't life simple?
Nightgaunt 05-12-05, 04:14 PM	If this person is truly intent on playing and trying to not grate on you then it'll be both a life lesson and a fun D&D experience. Or possibly a made for TV movie or after-school special...
SwitchUK 05-12-05, 04:33 PM	I say let him try it out, and be civil. Claim the moral high ground. That way, if he bites the hand, you can justifiably kick him out again. If he REALLY gets unpleasant with you, try shaking him up somehow. I suggest trying something like THIS (http://somethingpositive.net/sp05012002.shtml). If you're lucky, he'll leave, and you get a good laugh at his expense.
amethal 05-12-05, 04:58 PM	My friend just suggested I DM for him and Someone I don't like much. He's a pretty negative person and rather rude. My party is low on players or atleast players who can make it to most sessions, but I'm not sure I want to asociate with any sketchy characters. Has anyone here had to DM for people he doesn't really like.How low on players are you? I've played with people I don't like, but I'd draw the line at DM ing for one. Its better to DM for 2 players you like than 3 players, one of whom you don't like. Not a big fan of DM ing for 1 player tho, so if these are the only 2 guys you have then you'll have to decide just how much you dislike the problem player and how much you like D&D.