Handicapped gamer update - thanks! [Archive] - Wizards Community

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AmanitaEata

07-27-06, 12:20 PM
I am happy to report that our dilemma may be, at least for now, resolved. As many of you are no doubt aware, or gaming group has coped with a tragic situation (http://boards1.wizards.com/showthread.php?t=670433) – no arms, claw-like hooks, the inability to roll dice. It takes a better man than I. Horrible.

We don’t give up, though. We stay ‘till the fight’s won. And that’s just what we did. We did it for the good of our game, and we did it for this wonderful, important person.

Some great suggestions from you, the people of the WOTC community, resulted in our favorite young handicapped female role-player being able to quickly, easily and efficiently make her dice rolls, putting the spark back in our game. It was like Viagra for the D&D table; our campaign has been rock solid ever since.

It was simple, really. We did the “box” thing some of you suggested. And it worked great!

Oh, she protested at first. She always protests about things at first. You just have to coax her into it, let her know that change isn’t bad, that in the end, she’ll like it if she gives it a chance …

And she liked it all right. Did she ever. She really liked it.

Our games have gone really smoothly, she rolls quickly, and it seems like this issue is off the table. She even nailed a few crits that first night. How great is that?

Thank you for all the great advice. This poor young girl may be living with strange and cruel looking devices instead of hands, but her heart is golden and her zest for life boundless. You have helped us make this small part of her life even better.

Viva la Wizards boards!
PenderGrass

07-27-06, 12:28 PM
If I were ever to lose my arms, I would want to be able to game at your table Am.

Awesome outcome.

Go Strong, Bro!

:dragon:
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Millennium

07-27-06, 01:47 PM
I'm glad to hear that it worked out for you.
Ashok_Lal

07-27-06, 10:57 PM
:D :) :love: :fight!: :thumbsup: :inlove: :tissue: :gift:
Zombayz1

07-27-06, 11:50 PM
****ing pro. Good for you man!
Malcaor

07-27-06, 11:59 PM
it realy warms my heart to see comapssion like you have, good work man. geez wear's a medal when u need oen?
Varia

07-28-06, 04:53 AM
It was like Viagra for the D&D table; our campaign has been rock solid ever since.

Does that mean you have to see a doctor if your campaign lasts more than for hours? :P

*Hugs*
Varia
kelvinaw273

07-28-06, 10:23 AM
All the best to all of you for sticking by a friend and finding a good solution to a problem, and all the best to your friend! :cheer:
MadMoly

07-28-06, 11:40 AM
Well, that answers a question the other thread had raised, guess Amanita wasn't trolling. Good to hear your group is working out now.

MadMoly
vampymage

07-28-06, 02:15 PM
:w00t: :clap: :clap: :w00t: :bow: :bow:
Sulaco

07-28-06, 04:21 PM
Well, that answers a question the other thread had raised, guess Amanita wasn't trolling. Good to hear your group is working out now.

Not really, but it's also not really worth delving into further.
Malruhn

07-29-06, 08:54 PM
I missed the whole first thread and won't go into it here - but I ran into something similar several years ago.

Go to Wal*Mart or something similar, and look in the picture-frame aisle. There you can find small (about 4") cubes with a cardboard block in it to put pictures in... the cubes are clear plastic. Buy it for about $4 and when you get home, open it (it opens like two "C"s of plastic that fit at a 90 degree angle to form a cube), and throw away the little cardboard box inside that you would put your pictures in.

Spend two hours getting one set of dice into the open box... and then close the box. Get a friend to get a couple small pieces of transparent (Scotch-brand) tape, and tape the box closed so it doesn't accidently fall open.

Voila!! Instant see-thu 4" cubed box to pick up, shake and easily see your results.
Slumbersigh

07-30-06, 12:02 PM
Not really, but it's also not really worth delving into further.
You are not a good person.
Fatalis_902

07-30-06, 12:39 PM
Sulaco just sounds cynical to me.

And yes, I did read the first topic, and whether you think the trolling question was answered, Sulaco is right, it's not worth getting into at this point.

Anyway, props to you, Amanita. :invasion:
Treebore

07-30-06, 04:14 PM
Props to your group! Now go and teach the rest of the world! It needs it!

There are all kinds of problems us gamers, through acceptance of people into gaming groups, can help with, just through simple human kindness being shared through a game.

Like a situation I just became aware of yesterday. These twin girls had been raised out in the middle of nowhere for approaching two decades by their mom. They can only talk in a minimal way. They don't understand much of "society", they don't know how to read or write. I can go on, but you can probably fairly imagine the rest. All because their mother didn't trust the rest of the world (definitely out of touch with reality) so kept her children out of it, totally undeducated, no medical care, and I won't get into the living conditions.

Anyways, these girls need to learn how to be social, how to communicate, how to not be so self concious about themselves, and many, many, other things. Games, and just plain old education, are going to be crucial to allow them to have the ability to live their lives to the fullest possible potential.

It really kills me to see how much intelligence they do have, inherent friendliness, great enthusiasm, and to see how "crippled" they are by being almost 20 years behind on their education and social growth.

Fortunately with a couple of years of intense help and education a lot of the lost ground can be recovered. We'll just have to see how much the hidden scars don't heal and hold them back.

Anyways, kudo's to your group, and the girl, for having the guts to socialize with each other. She is human too, as you apparently have become well aware. I hope you continue to have the strength, and insights, to stand by your fellow human being.
Tripod

07-31-06, 03:12 PM
Wow that's really good to hear. It's important that we work with the retarded and handicapped to see to it that they don't miss out on all the pleasures life has to offer.
AmanitaEata

08-01-06, 02:12 PM
You are not a good person.
This is where you are wrong. Sulaco is one of the most caring, giving, compassionate people I have ever had the pleasure to meet. He is bright, intelligent, and the sort of person all D&D players wish they could be. Please refrain from tarnishing his good name in my thread.

DAVID, DAVID BROHMAN,
KING OF THE WILD FRONTIER
Sereno

08-02-06, 09:58 AM
Wow that's really good to hear. It's important that we work with the retarded and handicapped to see to it that they don't miss out on all the pleasures life has to offer.

Thanks, Tripod! As the father of a disabled son, you've helped to restore my faith in (gamer) humanity! :)

I'd give you a hug if I could, but here's a :cookie: instead. :)
Psychoticpsymon

08-02-06, 10:05 AM
Sulaco is a good guy.

Glad to hear the group is better.

amanita posted a strange thread a while back but it made more people laugh than it inconvenienced. I did a search and saw nothing untoward.
BeyondFated

08-02-06, 10:41 AM
You are a far better man than I.
Sulaco

08-02-06, 11:35 AM
You are not a good person.

Yes, I am, though one with little tolerance for being insulted publicly and without provocation.
Sinaz

08-02-06, 12:44 PM
Heh... I read through the other thread.

I was surprised no one had thought of trying to disassemble a Pop-O-Matic bubble and put a couple of polyhedrals inside.

Maybe the dome would be a little difficult to press with a prosthetic limb... but the idea is so appealing, that I may just go and entomb a set of my dice in some Pop-O-Matic bubbles.

They can be obtained from Trouble board games for about ten dollars.

If anyone knows of a way to obtain just the bubble, let us know. (Or if you happen to have a bubble laying around and can tell us if it can be disassembled without breaking it.)

you can pop a lot of trouble with the pop-o-mattic bubble... trouble! trouble!

...sigh...
mlund

08-02-06, 07:58 PM
I want to just poke my head in and give a thumbs-up. I appreciate hearing about this sort of dedication and cooperation. We see a lot of threads in here about people who treat one another with disregard and act with selfishness. It is a great change of pace to see the true spirit of the table coming through for your group.

Thanks for sharing your story.

- Marty Lund
Slumbersigh

08-03-06, 10:39 PM
Yes, I am, though one with little tolerance for being insulted publicly and without provocation.
I will never forget who you are and what you did.

As long as I have been sitting in here, rotting, suffering ... I have not forgotten.

Nor will I forget.

Not even on the sweet, sweet day when those doors open and I am free once again.

I hope you haven;t forgotten, either.

Oh no. I hope you haven't forgotten.
SokenzanMarauder

08-04-06, 12:35 AM
I will never forget who you are and what you did.

As long as I have been sitting in here, rotting, suffering ... I have not forgotten.

Nor will I forget.

Not even on the sweet, sweet day when those doors open and I am free once again.

I hope you haven;t forgotten, either.

Oh no. I hope you haven't forgotten.
*laughs*
How cute.

But yeah, 'grats to the OP for getting this thing sorted out.

And Sulaco, don't take random people's insults in any serious sort of way (which I know you don't anyways) especially when they don't even remotely know you.

-Gene
InterSilva

08-04-06, 09:40 PM
Does that mean you have to see a doctor if your campaign lasts more than for hours? :P

*Hugs*
Varia

Hahahahaha