Just my luck [Archive] - Wizards Community

Just my luck [Archive] - Wizards Community

Post/Author/DateTime Post
LiamDeclan
09-23-06, 04:37 PM Removed my original posting.

Had to vent I guess and put to much information into the thread than what was needed.

Thanks for the replys and advice.
Balseraph
09-23-06, 06:02 PM Uh... I really don't think that this is an appropriate place for moral/relationship advice.

If you don't want him gaming with you, politely say so. Anything else you should probably talk to friends and family who know the situation.
Vexsom
09-23-06, 06:12 PM This issue extends beyond the bounds of being DM related. This seems to be more of a life issue better taken up with a counselor or a good friend.

As a guy to another guy, I suggest you tell the girl about his total lack of responsability and let her do what she wants. Don't let him play if you don't like him. There's a good chance that if you don't like him, others at the table might not as well.

These two people are putting to much strain on your actual DMing and if you make this a game issue, it will ruin things for other people. You should sort this out in a way that has nothing to do with D&D, because, it DOESN'T have anything to do with D&D.

To him: "No, you can't play with our group. I apologize for my blatent honesty, but you're obviously irresponsible and having you as a player would distract me from properly taking on the roll of Narrator."

To her: "Look, you're a really nice person and I don't want to bust your balloon, but as a friend, I need to tell you. You see, Mr. funny-bunny has been down the relationship road a couple times. He has several children whom he will not take responsibility for. He's bad news, but it's up to you."
trapspringer
09-23-06, 06:58 PM But hey, dude, you totally missed your shot with that chick. I'm gunna say you waited to long.

Of course, I play D&D, so I'm not really one to talk.

So yea, the guy's a loser. So what? You want advise on dealing with losers? Don't. That's pretty straight forward, and I would hope you wouldn't need to come to a gaming board to get basic social advice like that. Talk to those people you need to talk to, communicate your feelings, and be done with it.
WizO_Cat
09-23-06, 11:06 PM Ok, I agree, sometimes it is good to vent. However, it think it is time to close the thread.

Post/Author/DateTime	Post
LiamDeclan 09-23-06, 04:37 PM	Removed my original posting. Had to vent I guess and put to much information into the thread than what was needed. Thanks for the replys and advice.
Balseraph 09-23-06, 06:02 PM	Uh... I really don't think that this is an appropriate place for moral/relationship advice. If you don't want him gaming with you, politely say so. Anything else you should probably talk to friends and family who know the situation.
Vexsom 09-23-06, 06:12 PM	This issue extends beyond the bounds of being DM related. This seems to be more of a life issue better taken up with a counselor or a good friend. As a guy to another guy, I suggest you tell the girl about his total lack of responsability and let her do what she wants. Don't let him play if you don't like him. There's a good chance that if you don't like him, others at the table might not as well. These two people are putting to much strain on your actual DMing and if you make this a game issue, it will ruin things for other people. You should sort this out in a way that has nothing to do with D&D, because, it DOESN'T have anything to do with D&D. To him: "No, you can't play with our group. I apologize for my blatent honesty, but you're obviously irresponsible and having you as a player would distract me from properly taking on the roll of Narrator." To her: "Look, you're a really nice person and I don't want to bust your balloon, but as a friend, I need to tell you. You see, Mr. funny-bunny has been down the relationship road a couple times. He has several children whom he will not take responsibility for. He's bad news, but it's up to you."
trapspringer 09-23-06, 06:58 PM	But hey, dude, you totally missed your shot with that chick. I'm gunna say you waited to long. Of course, I play D&D, so I'm not really one to talk. So yea, the guy's a loser. So what? You want advise on dealing with losers? Don't. That's pretty straight forward, and I would hope you wouldn't need to come to a gaming board to get basic social advice like that. Talk to those people you need to talk to, communicate your feelings, and be done with it.
WizO_Cat 09-23-06, 11:06 PM	Ok, I agree, sometimes it is good to vent. However, it think it is time to close the thread.