Lying, Blood Drives, and Ethics

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#1

EscherEnigma

Oct 30, 2012 20:46:14
So the base is having a blood drive tomorrow and I'm seriously considering going.

This would involve lying because, as a man who has, in fact, had sex with a man, I would have to lie about having sex with a man to donate blood.  This is on account of the FDA's regulations imposed during the AIDs crisis of the 80s putting a lifetime ban on any man who's had sex with a man since 1977.

So here's the ethical question... knowing what I know (my status, the rigorous testing given to all donated blood regardless of the answers to the questionaire, and my risk-factors that contribute to why I might *not* know my status) would it be ethical to lie in order to donate blood?
#2

Ragnar_Lodbrok

Oct 30, 2012 20:48:10
Sure. It'll really help someone else, so how can it be "wrong" to do one minor, harmless lie?
#3

bone_naga

Oct 30, 2012 20:52:11
All blood gets tested before being given to someone anyway. It would be stupid to trust one person's life to the complete honesty of another (or several others). So in my opinion, as someone that knows people who have received blood transfusions, and as someone with friends who have been infected with AIDS from blood transfusions, I say that if you want to do something good, go for it.

That said, my own opinion is that even though I could (well sometimes, overseas travel and tattoos disqualify me often anyway) I choose not to donate until someone pulls their head out of their ass and fixes some of the rules, particularly ones like the sex with other men, which I find to be unnecessarily discriminatory. A better question would be "have you had unprotected sex with someone in the last X months?"
#4

zombie_babies

Oct 31, 2012 8:15:20
Well, it can't possibly hurt anyone and it may help.  I think the math on that is pretty clear.
#5

Klirshon

Oct 31, 2012 8:35:38
Considering that the blood gets tested anyways, don't worry about omitting irrelevant data. My parameters however insist that I must urge you to donate a portion of your brain (or the whole organ if you would be so generous). Some of us are famished.
#6

Cpt_Micha

Oct 31, 2012 9:03:15
So the base is having a blood drive tomorrow and I'm seriously considering going.

This would involve lying because, as a man who has, in fact, had sex with a man, I would have to lie about having sex with a man to donate blood.  This is on account of the FDA's regulations imposed during the AIDs crisis of the 80s putting a lifetime ban on any man who's had sex with a man since 1977.

So here's the ethical question... knowing what I know (my status, the rigorous testing given to all donated blood regardless of the answers to the questionaire, and my risk-factors that contribute to why I might *not* know my status) would it be ethical to lie in order to donate blood?



It's a white lie. Go for it.

Also braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnnnzzz smart person.... *bites EE and infects with the zombie virus* 
#7

Klirshon

Oct 31, 2012 9:26:50
Note to self: install mandibles to masticate brains.

 
#8

Robin_Hoodlum

Oct 31, 2012 10:48:34
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.
And it could, potentially, result in some legal action or employment re-adjustment.

So, my advice, being what it is, is to not give blood.
#9

jetshield

Oct 31, 2012 10:52:37
words


With his hunger growing, ZombieJet leaps out of the shadows onto RH's back.

brrrrrraaaaaaiiiinnnnnnsssssssssssssssssssss

*takes a large bite from RH's neck*
#10

Robin_Hoodlum

Oct 31, 2012 10:56:18
words


With his hunger growing, ZombieJet leaps out of the shadows onto RH's back.

brrrrrraaaaaaiiiinnnnnnsssssssssssssssssssss

*takes a large bite from RH's neck*


*shakes head and loosens eyeballs*
Braaaiiinnnssss!!!

*wanders off to find brains... knows better than to look in the OTT*
#11

mellored

Oct 31, 2012 11:06:15
Sex, by definition requires a male and female.

Therefor, you cannot have sex with someone of the same gender.

Therefor, it's not a lie to say you didn't do something that's impossible to do.  
#12

Robin_Hoodlum

Oct 31, 2012 11:08:13
Sex, by definition requires a male and female.

Therefor, you cannot have sex with someone of the same gender.

Therefor, it's not a lie to say you didn't do something that's impossible to do.  


Well, since marriage, by definition, is a union between man and woman, are you against gay folks from marrying?
#13

jetshield

Oct 31, 2012 11:12:38
Sex, by definition requires a male and female.

Therefor, you cannot have sex with someone of the same gender.

Therefor, it's not a lie to say you didn't do something that's impossible to do.  


brrrraaaaaiiinnnnnnsssssssss!

*bites mellored*

(see sig for details)

OOC: RH, get your sig updated
#14

mellored

Oct 31, 2012 11:13:08
Sex, by definition requires a male and female.

Therefor, you cannot have sex with someone of the same gender.

Therefor, it's not a lie to say you didn't do something that's impossible to do.  

Well, since marriage, by definition, is a union between man and woman, are you against gay folks from marrying?

That's not the definition.  It's what some people are trying to make the definition.

And i'm against any goverment recognizing of any kind of marrage.  You shouldn't get special treatment just because you share a life with someone.
#15

Robin_Hoodlum

Oct 31, 2012 11:19:34


OOC: RH, get your sig updated


Oops!

How do I do that? I mean "hide" it an' junk...?

#16

mellored

Oct 31, 2012 11:25:05


OOC: RH, get your sig updated


Oops!

How do I do that? I mean "hide" it an' junk...?



(sblock) junk (/sblock)

Except replace ( and ) with [ and ]
#17

jetshield

Oct 31, 2012 11:25:09
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#18

DoctorBadWolf

Oct 31, 2012 13:09:58
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.



Lieing is only "bad" if some combination of intent, result and/or other circumstance are bad to a degree that outweighs the good.

Moral absolutism is nonsense.
#19

ADHadh

Oct 31, 2012 13:54:52
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.



Lieing is only "bad" if some combination of intent, result and/or other circumstance are bad to a degree that outweighs the good.

Moral absolutism is nonsense.


Finally, a brain untou-
EWWWW, pony brain!

But since there seems to be none other left... I guess I'll just season it more *CHOMP*
#20

draco1119

Oct 31, 2012 14:11:47
EE, I've lied on that portion of the questionnaire ever since the first time I gave gave blood in '93.  Granted, my situation is different from yours (I don't choose to consider the non-consensual kind as "sex"), but... yeah, go ahead.
#21

Robin_Hoodlum

Oct 31, 2012 14:15:45
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.



Lieing is only "bad" if some combination of intent, result and/or other circumstance are bad to a degree that outweighs the good.


Your opinion.

Moral absolutism is nonsense.


Again, your opinion.
#22

mellored

Oct 31, 2012 14:22:01
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.



Lieing is only "bad" if some combination of intent, result and/or other circumstance are bad to a degree that outweighs the good.


Your opinion.

Moral absolutism is nonsense.


Again, your opinion.

It's your opinion that it's his opinion.

Oh, and umm... brains?
#23

ADHadh

Oct 31, 2012 14:24:45

Oh, and umm... brains?


#24

jetshield

Oct 31, 2012 14:25:20
Brrrrraaaaaiiiiinnnnnnssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#25

EscherEnigma

Oct 31, 2012 22:06:37
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.


Hrm... 


  • I would cheerfully lie to the Nazis about the Jews in my attic

  • I would chuck that baby into the volcano to save the world

  • I will choose to let the orphans starve so the soldiers can have enough food to keep fighting

  • and if a creepy ghost thing possess my girlfriend and asks if I'm a god, I will say "yes".


For that matter, I will kill to save.  Heck, that's actually the business I'm in (in an indirect fashion).

Less dramatically...


  • I refuse to condemn a kid (or adult) for staying in the closet

  • I will insist to my grandmother that she looks great every time I see her

  • and I will always tell my grandfather that his carrot cake is awesome. 


So... yeah.  Guess I'm one of those "people".
#26

bone_naga

Oct 31, 2012 22:14:37
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.
And it could, potentially, result in some legal action or employment re-adjustment.

So, my advice, being what it is, is to not give blood.

There are a lot of cases of the ends justifying the means, some of which I think you would probably support.

Isn't war very much a case of the end justifying the means? Sure we play by certain rules, but we know going into it that no matter how hard we try, innocent people are going to be injured, killed, displaced, or otherwise affected. Killing is bad, but in war or even in self defense you know that sometimes it is him or you. Spies and undercover law enforcement have to lie and deceive others frequently in order to perform their job.

That's not to say that all means are justified, but there has to be some sort of middle ground. Otherwise we're all either a bunch of psychos or a bunch of ****.
#27

homicidal_squirrel

Oct 31, 2012 22:52:12



  • I would cheerfully lie to the Nazis about the Jews in my attic



You have Jews in your attic? Not cool, man. Not cool. 


I disagree.
/Shoots HC in the head. 
#28

homicidal_squirrel

Oct 31, 2012 23:03:13
I'm the one who started the infection. You need to shoot my genetials to kill me. 
 

That's what I did. ;)

#29

KillerGM

Nov 01, 2012 11:27:13
No matter what some "people" may believe, the ends does not justify the means.
So while your heart is in the right place and you want to help your fellow man, lieing is bad.


Hrm... 


  • I would cheerfully lie to the Nazis about the Jews in my attic

  • I would chuck that baby into the volcano to save the world

  • I will choose to let the orphans starve so the soldiers can have enough food to keep fighting

  • and if a creepy ghost thing possess my girlfriend and asks if I'm a god, I will say "yes".


For that matter, I will kill to save.  Heck, that's actually the business I'm in (in an indirect fashion).

Less dramatically...


  • I refuse to condemn a kid (or adult) for staying in the closet

  • I will insist to my grandmother that she looks great every time I see her

  • and I will always tell my grandfather that his carrot cake is awesome. 


So... yeah.  Guess I'm one of those "people".

So, by this, it seems to be a small thing to lie about your sexual activity in order to serve a larger purpose of providing blood.

Ethics are funny like that. However, not all "bad things" are equally "bad", nor are all "good things" equally "good". The question is if the "good thing" you want to do is of more value than the "bad thing" you have to do to do it.

So, is giving blood a greater "good" than lying is "bad"?

You can also look at it this way: is this a selfish desire to thumb your nose, as it were, at the statute? Do you truly want to give blood out of an altruistic purpose? What kind of personal stain would lying leave on you? Is it better to take a personal negative (lying) for a global positive (giving blood)? Or is that global positive actually just another personal negative - pride?

Ah, so many interesting ways to look at it!