Finding Game

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#1

natoba

Jan 09, 2010 19:13:27
So I'm having trouble finding a group/ game... Anyone got any tips, websites, suggestions that I could use to find players, or a DM?

Also as a edit note. There are no stores in my Town that sell Dnd Books or Items (Kinda live in a small town )
#2

regalkain

Jan 11, 2010 2:26:11
I have this same problem actually. I've ran (As a character and some as a DM) 3.5, so I might be able to do something with you. But the town I live in is really small, and 90% of the community doesn't game, the other 10% are tech-heads. (No offense to tech-heads of course.)

 But if you're interested I'd be happy to try and work something out, maybe we can even get a small group going.
#3

tsukinousagi

Jan 11, 2010 9:40:23
My standard reply, look for a place where young people gather. Most schools have a solid supply of young people go figure

If you can't muster a group out of the local school in after school hours you really need to work on your selling skills
#4

aleristhes33ker

Jan 11, 2010 10:23:21
Let me put it like this: Over 60 % of my current group said they would never play something like it before I played with them for the first timeLaughing

The only question is most likely: Could you imagine any of your friends (who do not already play) as a fellow player?

If so, just ask them, convince them and play with them once. After that, you will see.
#5

regalkain

Jan 11, 2010 13:38:46
My standard reply, look for a place where young people gather. Most schools have a solid supply of young people go figure

If you can't muster a group out of the local school in after school hours you really need to work on your selling skills



The kids around here have no interest in games. I've tried. Plus I'm 20, so it's a bit wierd for me to go to a group of kids and poke around at them.

@Aleris
 I've tried to get a few people to play, they flat-out refuse and won't under any circumstance. I guess it would make them feel to much like a kid or a geek
#6

marc_byrne

Jan 11, 2010 20:04:56
You could also try pbp (Play By Post).  Its slow, and not always easy to find a good game, but if you have nothing going for you in reality, its worth a try.   www.dndonlinegames.com  is a site where they do this.  There are others you can google.
#7

dulsi

Jan 11, 2010 20:57:21
PbP are done on this forum as well.  See Real Adventures group.
#8

tsukinousagi

Jan 12, 2010 8:01:39
My standard reply, look for a place where young people gather. Most schools have a solid supply of young people go figure

If you can't muster a group out of the local school in after school hours you really need to work on your selling skills



The kids around here have no interest in games. I've tried. Plus I'm 20, so it's a bit wierd for me to go to a group of kids and poke around at them.

@Aleris
 I've tried to get a few people to play, they flat-out refuse and won't under any circumstance. I guess it would make them feel to much like a kid or a geek



Understandable. If you think your 20 years are a problem though, think how my 48 look

Still it's all how you do it.

Hanging around looking like a weirdo WILL make you seem like one. Now if you make up some flyers, and approach the principle of vice principle and say you'd like to see if there was any chance of an after school hours gaming club, you suddenly look more like a volunteer wanting to give bored kids something constructive to do.
You get an announcement made over the school PA and you place some flyers where the kids will see them, and then you pick a location and see if anyone shows up.

Just asking kids 'hey wanna play some D&D?' though is like doing a survey, 'hey kid, are you still a virgin? You simply won't get positive responses to questions asked the wrong way.
#9

aleristhes33ker

Jan 12, 2010 10:55:25
If there's no other way, try to play online. I personally prefer sitting at a table with the other players but - hey, it's better than nothingLaughing
#10

Ogiwan

Jan 12, 2010 15:56:50
The kids around here have no interest in games. I've tried. Plus I'm 20, so it's a bit wierd for me to go to a group of kids and poke around at them.



You're the perfect age to infiltrate college gaming groups. Colleges also generally have a higher demographic of gamers than the population at large. Is there a college near you (either of you)?
#11

weenog42

Jan 12, 2010 17:23:46
As has been suggested, colleges and local game stores are a good place to start.  There are tons of organized events that take place every year - RPGA events, Conventions, etc.  The main wizards.com/dnd site has some kind of find a group tool, although I havent used it.  If I recall it's similar to meetup.com; it may even just link there.
#12

Pawndream

Jan 12, 2010 23:11:28
Online Player Finders:

www.enworld.org/forum/gamers-seeking-gam...

accessdenied.net/

www.boardgamegeek.com/users.php

nearbygamers.com/

www.penandpapergames.com/

www.rpgregistry.com/

Play by Post Websites:

This first link is my favorite, because it compares all the main PbP sites and shows you what each has to offer:

www.treasuretables.org/wiki/index.php?ti...

www.rpol.net/

www.myth-weavers.com/index.php

www.roleplaymarket.com/

www.dndonlinegames.com/cmps_index.php
















#13

natoba

Jan 13, 2010 10:30:23
Yea I both go to College, and have gotten all my friends to play. My biggest problem is my friends are unreliable and never really can set a schedule for gaming down. Or that I am Dm all the time and I really just wanta have a good time and play a game, but thanks for all the advice everone!